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9 FENG SHUI RULES TO AVOID A SEXUAL HARASSMENT LAW SUIT- I. E. SAN DIEGO MAYOR BOB FILNER

 

When I was growing up in Asia, social etiquette included the unwritten manner that men ruled and women  were “to be seen but not to be heard.” 

At that young age, I often fantasized about being a man so I could laugh out loud, joke openly amongst my peers, go anywhere, and freely do anything to my heart’s content without ridicule or chastisement.  Free like a horse I dreamed …

 

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… Until I came to America… fast forward 2013…

where and when sexual harassment has become an emotional way of “revenge” for many women when they don’t get what they want, and have discovered a new way to make men pay, dearly! 

In these cases men lose their reputations, and their pocket books suffer from humongous legal defense bills trying to proving their innocence. 

The U.S Law requires that the burden of proof rest upon the plaintiff, the accuser. However, a person can be mean-spirited by filing a law suit without a shred of evidence that she was sexually harassed.  And, sexual harassment is he said she said, which is quite difficult to prove.

So easily done in the land of California as many attorneys willingly take on cases for nothing based on contingency fees.  So, when there is no financial loss to the plaintiff, and much to gain (books, movie deals, sympathy, fame), many women use sexual harassment as their trump card.  

 

 

Brian Banks

 

 (This is photo of Brian Banks, Falsely Accused of Rape,  Sentenced 7 Years  in jail and  Lifetime Registered Sex Offender, aka. the modern day Scarlet letter). 

Accuser  Keeps $1.5 Million Award As Rape Victim).  Here is the link: 

http://californiainnocenceproject.org/read-their-stories/brian-banks

 

Therefore, I am so glad that I am a woman in this century, living in the United States of America where women rule; and men… oh well, you can fill in the rest.

 

 

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Here is my advice to well-to-do men on avoiding a sexual harassment lawsuit:

 

1.  Do not compliment her as this can be interpreted as “sexual harassment”.  You have no right to tell her she looks pretty amazing and super duper cute, and never mind that she was blowing a kiss your way!   Here is your  ”sexual harassment buster 101″ lesson:  breath in, breath out and chant “I see nothing, I say nothing, I hear nothing.  Please keep me safe from a sexual harassment law suit.”

 

 

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2.  Do not smile; sexual harassment for sure.  Your smile can be seen as  “a come-on, seducing smile!” which made her pretty nervous that could affect her work performance.  She also could suffer mental distress, all because of  your  smiley face!

 

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3.  Do not look at her, for this can be perceived as intimidating or threatening.  

 

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4.  Do not agree to pose for a photo with her, especially with your arms around whomever she is as this will be interpreted of you pulling her into your arms, for she was too intimated to release herself, but forced to smile and suffer the photo-op.   

 

 

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5.  Don’t hug.  Now, why are you hugging someone other than your wife?  Unless you are in Italy, where men are known to pinch, don’t do it!  By the way, Italian men, words of caution:  if you must pinch, be sure to pinch all women, all ages, otherwise, the women were not pinched, can sue you for discrimination! We do have the International law now, have you heard?  

 

 

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6. Don’t have body contact. Remain at arm’s length, always. If you have a body guard, have your body guard stand between you and her.  Make sure that you hire a male body guard, otherwise female guard can sue you too, a double whammy.  In this photo, Mr. Star Trek was a bit careless, his hand was resting on my arm.  Was he flirting? Did he squeeze my arm with intention to intimidate me?  Could you see my “helpless, nervous smile?”  Oh my!

 

 

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7.  When in doubt, follow the Asian custom: Bow to each other, no touching.  Having nuns and monks surrounded you as witnesses, chaperons would be quite helpful, as seen here in the photo of my mentor, Thay Thich Nhat Hanh and Oprah.  

 

 

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and declare you are a born again Asian, as seen in photo of our former President George Bush; and Putin, that you are taught not to shake hands, nor compliment. 

 

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8.   And if you cannot display a serious look, just mimic Jet Li’s poker face,

 

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9.   or have a look like  ”I have no interest in her.  I am forced to take a photo with this woman,” as seen here in the photo of me and Dr. Edwin “Buzz” Aldrin, the first historic Apollo XI moon walk (no, not a moon walk like Michael Jackson, but physically walked on the moon.  Dr. Aldrin and Neil Armstrong were the first two humans to set foot on another world).   

 

 

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Lastly, don’t answer her emails or phone calls personally. 

 

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Believe me, it is much more economical to hire someone to take calls, and reply to her emails for you. 

Don’t believe me?  Think of Bob Filner, our Mayor of San Diego.  I could be his # 1001 accuser because he dared to smile and put his arm around me, as seen here in this photo!

 

 

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As always, I welcome your feedback.  Email us Gwen@GwenCoronado.com 

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REARRANGE YOUR DESK FOR FENG SHUI PROSPERITY

 

We’re all familiar with Murphy’s Law aren’t we?  We plan meticulously to move forward to do something, and then we begin to notice that our tasks aren’t going as smoothly as planned, perhaps something stops us, and then our results tend to go sour. 

Well stop!  It’s simply time for a feng shui tune-up.

Put your telephone on mute, as voice mail was invented for this purpose to take a moment for yourself without  interruption, because it’s time to clean your desk, and clear all clutter. Yes, paper is clutter too so take a moment to rearrange your desk and its contents.       

This photo is of my desk. Every night, prior to going home, I take my time to be thankful for my blessings and I ask for  my office to be blessed and protected.

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I want to enter my office the next morning with a  fresh start, and in a positive mood, so I rearrange my desk by clearing all clutter, and file my paper work.  My red book is my planner (yes, I’m still old fashioned, using pen and paper).  I document in my planner what needs to be done the next day, fill it with my thoughts, and leave room for an unexpected appointments (one unexpected appointment allowed).  

My red bowl is filled with red rose petals from roses given to me by my sweet niece adding a nice fragrance and a wonderful memory.  The red bowl represents abundant wealth, and my niece’s rose petals represent love.

 A photo of our son and our Princess Pekingese, in Feng Shui, it represents family and children.

A photo of my mentor, Sister Chan Khong with me, representing support, and knowledge. 

My Prince charming husband’s last name is Coronado meaning Crown, so I have a Royal Crown jewel, as reminder of him in lieu of a photo, representing relationships and support. 

A crystal boat paperweight representing our ship sailing in.  In feng shui, a ship represents water, which represents wealth, and wealth sailing our way.    

Feng shui is simple, when we practice the old fashion way in our daily life by using what we have, and applying them to work for us to enhance health, wealth and relationship.  Feedback or Feng Shui questions? Email us Gwen@GwenCoronado.com 

 

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